On phone call today, with a good male friend of mine, I realized he had been worried that while enjoying the beauty and attractiveness of a woman while she dances in a provocative way, he felt worried that he was objectifying her. In the era of #metoo, I can understand that anxiety. The fact that I realized he struggled with this issue moved me to help him understand it and me to explore it with him. First, I know my friend to be a very conscientious person who goes out of his way to be caring and respectful towards everyone. And, at the same time, he is an attractive single man who is dating and sexually active — so his anxiety is understandable.
I shared with my friend that I think objectification of either gender happens inside a cultural container. The more discrimination and marginalization — tolerated by a culture — the more likely it is that objectification will occur. While I am trying not to be gender-specific here ( because both genders experience objectification ), there can be no white-washing the sad fact that it has been primarily women, across the millennia, who have been marginalized and discriminated against, and therefore even today, it is women who are experiencing the most objectification.
Objectification literally means to make a person — an object. I explained to my friend that the difference between objects and people is that objects don’t have feelings. And, objects don’t usually have rights. So, objectifying a person means that, conveniently, you ignore those facts. Humans who have neither feelings or rights are, of course, much easier to deal with. They are like slaves who have no rights and whose feelings don’t matter.
However, viewing an object of beauty ( for instance watching a beautiful woman dancing ) and feeling moved, inspired, attracted and even aroused, is nothing to feel guilty or ashamed about. In fact, celebrating is beauty and our attraction to it — is normal. What is not normal is experiencing human beauty and our attraction to it in a fragmented, compartmentalized way. Humans are multi-faceted and we must be experienced in a holistic way. Each of us are unique individuals. We need to be seen and experienced for how we look, as well as, who we are ( our thoughts, opinions, beliefs, feelings, talents, background and cultural heritage ). When a human is not experienced in a holistic way — that is objectification. However, when we acknowledge that each person is a unique individual and when we take the time to experience each other in a deep and considerate way — that is respectful and honoring — which is the opposite of objectification.
In the last few days, the United States Congress passed laws making it a criminal offense for a website to promote prostitution and sex-trafficking. And, while opinions differ on the subject of prostitution, NO ONE is supportive of the horrific victimization that occurs with sex-trafficking.
But, with the passage of this legislation, known as FOSTA and SESTA, one thing that is becoming crystal clear is — our culture does not believe that human beings can engage in consensual physical affection without the physical affection becoming sexual. And, when you think about this sad fact, you realize how much control our society deems is necessary to exert over something as simple as a snuggle between two consenting adults.
Take for example, Craigslist, who recently refused my advertisement in the “Small Business Services” ads section. The title of my ad read: “Snuggle Salon — Snuggle Services ( Strictly NON-SEXUAL )”. And, in big block letters at the top of the ad “********************* THIS SERVICE IS STRICTLY NON-SEXUAL *********************”. Craigslist responded with: “This posting has been removed. Please do not use Craigslist for this sort of posting.”
While, within the current legislative environment, it is somewhat understandable that Craigslist doesn’t want to take a risk — what is telling about Craigslist’s risk aversion is that Craigslist, and probably most Americans, cannot conceive of the following possibilities:
1. that adults who engage in consensual physical affection can choose not to become sexual
2. that only physical affection that includes sex could be gratifying enough for monetary exchange.
These cultural beliefs are shockingly self-limiting, self-defeating, dehumanizing, and demoralizing. As a culture, I would argue, that unfortunately — this is where our beliefs stand. And, it is why Mark Greene, senior editor of the Good Men Project, believes the lack of gentle platonic touch in men’s lives is a killer and that men are suffering from something he calls “touch isolation”. See Mr. Greene’s article here.
Snuggle Salon’s mission is to change these beliefs. These beliefs have no place in a modern society. We need to confront these beliefs and prove to ourselves and our culture that we are adults and we can exhibit self-control. We can control ourselves both physically and emotionally. We are not children and we don’t have to play victims. We need to model this for our children. We can have healthy boundaries and thereby we can have more freedom to express ourselves as physically affectionate adults who have more operational modes than simply sexual / not sexual. We also need to accept that physical affection for human beings is natural and necessary and adults need it just as much as babies do.
Snuggle Salon’s mission is to inspire authentic connection and communication with our clients. We create a nurturing, intimate space — a loving, non-judgemental space. We offer this as a practice space for asking for what you want. Learning to negotiate for a win-win is encouraged.
Based on a pre-agreed set of rules — the space we create allows for consensual physical affection and deep emotional connection. We hope to play a part in the solution of the cultural issues we face today between men and women, the cultural isolation that occurs between men and women and our unfortunate culturally imposed standards.
We hope you will join us for a snuggle session soon!
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We understand the importance of self-care, things like going to the dentist, exercise, getting a massage or time with friends, etc. We can’t give ourselves a massage….so we can feel OK about going to a massage therapist. However, we are all supposed to be able to magically produce a snuggle partner for ourselves even if we are not currently in a romantic relationship.
Our culture, and social norms, impose on us the heavy burden of being completely self-sufficient — even when it is clear that — just as we can’t do our own dentistry, we can’t give ourselves the closeness, affection, attention and embrace of another human being. Self-care is very important in our lives and something that contributes greatly to our health, improves our relationships with others and our over-all well being.
Other people are getting cuddled!! Deeply. Lovingly. Affectionately. The love, in the moment, is real. Which is why I say that I don’t pay the Snuggle Partners for cuddling. I pay them for being the amazing people that they are! They have high self-esteem, but are not aloof or vain. The are naturally warm, affectionate, kind and giving. It isn’t so much what they do — but who they are.
I hope you will give yourself the gift of meeting and snuggling with a Snuggle Partner.
Oh! My!! There is lots to say on this subject. Snuggle Partners are a different breed. By nature, they are open, warm and affectionate — of course they love to cuddle. They are social, friendly and generally, outgoing. Snuggling and being physically affectionate is part of who they are.
They are also enterprising. Their work for Snuggle Salon IS NOT a full-time job for most of them. They are actors, singers and dancers. They are massage therapists and mid-wives. They are natural healers and most importantly they are naturally compassionate, caring, generous human beings.
Snuggle Partner’s also have another super-power — they are courageous enough to tell the truth. This means they are able to easily and gently set boundaries — not only with clients — but within all their relationships. This means you can trust them to be authentically themselves with you. It also means you can trust them to tell you the truth, ask for what they want and hear no gracefully. If you meet them, they can teach you important life skills. Skills you may not be have been fortunate enough to have modeled for you as you grew up. Snuggle Partners are a gift to the world.
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Autumn's Testimonials
From Anonymous, Solano County, 7/22/2024 “Once again the session was very relaxing and enjoyable. I felt comfortable and safe with Autumn! Autumn was amazing and one of the best! Easy to talk to, comfortable, caring, and an overall joy. She is such a cool and sweet person!
Everything [was] great! I just hope one day you guys can offer sessions closer to Solano County. Going to cross my fingers and root for you guys :).”
From Cliff, San Jose, 5/29/2024 “Autumn was wonderful.”
From James, Hayward, 4/12/2024 “Snuggle professional was very patient and understanding. Thank you Autumn. You helped my anxiety and confidence. Thanks again.”
From Anonymous, Sunnyvale, 3/20/2024 “I participated in my first cuddle session. Autumn was very helpful in making me feel at ease, and offering up suggestions about how to begin. I was nervous to try this, but I knew that I needed some sort of therapy. I am pleasantly surprised by how it turned out, and perhaps it was largely due to Autumn providing a comforting space to make me feel at ease. She was accommodating of my schedule, and I would definitely consider future sessions. “
From H.N., Mountain View, 3/13/2022 “Thank you very much for your time and wonderful care that you showed me on Sunday. It was a wonderful experience filled with calm. I hope to be back to the safe space soon. Have a wonderful week ahead! 🙂 “
From Eric, Milpitas, 10/18/2022 “I enjoyed the conversations with Autumn. I think we hit it off. We talked about really personal stuff. She was very warm and honest. Her body really felt good and warm. Autumn was really nice and accommodating and friendly. She gave me a friendly kiss on my forehead and she allowed me to kiss her on the cheek. I was very nervous before the meeting but very comfortable at the end of the session. The only regret is that I can’t stay for another 10 hours. :-)”
From Tim, Mountain View, 9/27/2022 “Cosy room setup, clear communication, and an absolutely splendid experience with Autumn — such a wonderful soul, great conversationalist, and outstanding cuddle guide/partner!”
From Anonymous, 2/8/2022 “Autumn is such a warm, kind person. She is very comforting and patient so it helps me tremendously with any anxiety I have. Even into the next day I feel very relaxed and will be booking again soon.”
From Dave M., Los Gatos, 11/18/2021 “Our session resulted in the most peaceful feeling I’ve had in many years. It is not an exaggeration to say that I felt a sense of euphoria. I hope to schedule another session soon!”
Yasmine's Testimonials
From Cliff, Campbell, 7/21/2024 “I had a great session with Yasmine yesterday. We exchanged stories and had a lot of laughs. She has a great laugh that goes all the way through her body. I can’t believe I was her first snuggle partner. Yvonne you trained her well!.”
Melanie's Testimonials
from DJ, East Bay, 7/1/2024 “I was feeling a bit down when I went into my session, but not for long. Melanie definitely gives the best hugs, just like her intro says. Also, she is HILARIOUS! Her playful sense of humor during our session lifted my spirits tremendously. Thank you Melanie!””
from Garry, Scott’s Valley, 2/19/2023 “My Snuggle with Melanie. On time, welcoming and gracious. Kindly validated ID and discussed the session and environment to make it feel very safe and comforting. Room was very comfortable and adjustable lighting was great for the space.
Melanie was sweet, kind knowledgeable and so welcoming. Suggestions on different cuddle positions and checking in on comfort and more. Felt extremely safe and all my nervousness was gone. Deeply healing to have nurturing cuddles with such a kind and knowledgeable soul.”
from Danielle, Vista, 11/15/2022 “I enjoyed Melanie’s empathy, intuition and compassion for my initial apprehension and I immediately was comforted and felt safe. Melanie went above and beyond to make me feel special! I am so grateful for my initial appointment being such a safe experience.”
from John, Sacramento, 11/2/2022 “I booked my first snuggle session during a moment that I was extremely stressed in many parts of life, and when it felt like my nerves would not cam down. Melanie listened carefully, was warm, welcoming and helped me feel comfortable in letting go of the nervous energy and recovering a sense of well-being. I took the option to extend the session and left feeling more myself than I have in years! The warmth flowed strongly for several days and helped me navigate difficult moments from a place of being calm and whole. I highly recommend Snuggle Salon nurture therapy and Melanie as a practitioner.”
from V., Milpitas, 4/11/2022 “Snuggle session with Melanie was very good. She made me feel comfortable, and relaxed, asked good questions. It was a calming experience, and would like to schedule another session with her.”
from Ben M., San Mateo, 2/6/2022 “I enjoyed the way Melanie listened, asked great questions, shared her own thoughts and listened some more! Her warmth and kindness was so welcoming and made me at ease. She is a great snuggler and a deep soul. Melanie was so warm, open and friendly. She showed real care and nurturance. and YES, she’s very snuggly, kind and FUN! I also liked the space. It, too, was warm and welcoming and conducive to cuddling! Even received excellent directions to the location and felt well cared about…Thanks!”
from Matthew, Stanford, 2/9/2022 “I enjoyed our snuggle as well. I didn’t know what to expect going into it, but your relaxing vibe and sense of humor quickly put me at ease. It honestly felt more like reuniting with a longtime friend than a first meeting. (I’m glad I was able to book an extra half hour at the end of it.) My one regret is that I forgot to ask to hear some of your opera singing. 🙂 See you next time!”
from H., San Jose, 11/23/2021 “I booked a session for my birthday evening because I had no other plans, but can’t be happier about my decision. Melanie was great, I felt our hugs calming down our hearts after a long day, the tight snuggles and the different cuddle positions felt like comforting massages. I felt worth being born on my birthday in Melanie’s arms. :)”
from H., San Jose, 11/20/2021 “I had a great snuggle session with Melanie. It was the first time I ever cuddled with anyone, and it felt so relaxing and peaceful. I still feel hugged even after the session, and the warmth of the tight hugs Melanie gives makes one forget anything they might be going through. Highly recommend 10/10.”
from Bharat, Fremont, 11/6/2021 “I enjoyed every moment of it. The tight snugs were very special to me and enjoyed a lot. Would like to come again and experience more.”
From Yvonne: Bharat also called me to tell me how much he enjoyed the session with Melanie. He said it was really, really good and he wants more snuggle experiences.
from Kevin N., San Jose, 9/22/2021 “It was nice to meet you. Thank you for your time today, I feel so much more relaxed after the snuggle session. I’m glad you liked and were ok with hearing from the audiobook. Wishing you the best of luck at the opera tomorrow!”
from Ivo C., San Jose, 9/9/2021 “I felt truly I good hands & understood & taken care of. The verbal communication was also splendid. Highly satisfied with the professionalism.”
from Sean H., Los Gatos, 7/1/2021 “Melanie is very inviting, open to different cuddle positions, and can give a good massage. She is also a good listener and a lighthearted conversationalist.”
from Alexander, San Mateo, 3/21/2021 Go For a Walk Appointment “It was a blast to share oooh’s and ahh”s while meeting for the first time. It was fun! All while getting some sun, exercising and just having good company. As it was a fun happy place! Thank you and look forward to another fun session !”
from R.dlP., Hollister, 12/16/2019 “Melanie, I want you for myself and your snuggles are better than therapy. How’s that for a testimonial? You’re beautiful and I’ll see you in a couple months.”
from R.D., Campbell, 5/11/2019 “There’s so much that this kind of connection offers. I know I feel strengthened and validated after my session. I also feel the benefits are best understood on a subconscious level. My first session was with Melanie and she was a delight. Not only was she nurturing and non-judgemental, but she was very easy to converse with. The best things though were her hugs – I couldn’t get enough of that and I’m sure I’ll schedule with her again.”
Boundaries Sensitivity Training Class from C.L., Santa Clara, 5/21/2019 “Melanie helped me to understand the step-by-step process of snuggling session and I enjoyed every moment of it 🙂 She even helped me with my confidence and really focused on the meaningful intimacy.Thank you Melanie for your snuggling session and your insights about it. I am happy to say that I have a snuggling partner like Melanie.”
From K.B., San Jose, 1/26/2019 “I have only one word for Melanie at Snuggle Salon: Awesome! No wait, I will cheat a bit.. add super fun and friendly to that! My time with her just flew, which I think speaks volumes! Enough said…”
From N.T., San Jose, 10/16/2018 “My day for a snuggle session was finally here and when Melanie greeted me with a hug, I got the warm fuzzies all over and knew this would be an awesome experience because she is so deliciously hug-able. She is a warm healer, very snuggle-able and displays the sweetest and most accommodating personality. I felt totally comfortable in her presence, like I have known her for years. In her sessions, she offers a musical serenade on her keyboard and it was like having my own private concert. I loved it and her voice is amazing. I totally enjoyed her singing, it really felt special.
One thing I had asked her to help me with when first contacting her was with some stretching and yoga exercises. Her background in ring gymnastics led her to remind me to flex my hip more with some pressure she applied. It definitely helped my tight muscles. She even gave me a massage with tennis balls and a hand roller. I was ready to melt in her arms at that point. That was surely a cool warm up.
In order to present as safe container and overall feeling, we went over the rules because it was my intention to fully respect this woman and her boundaries. And for the next few hours we snuggled and cuddled close like being tied in a knot, it was such a warm, intimate and calming feeling; one that I have been missing in my single life.
When it was time to go – and I didn’t want it to – it was just clearly evident to me that Melanie simply enjoys being available for this basic type of human touch connection for those who are missing it in their life. Thank you sooo much Melanie and I cannot wait to snuggle with you again.”
From R.K., Mountain View, 8/31/2018 “I very much enjoyed Melanie’s company, conversation, and kindness.”
From C.M., San Jose, 8/31/2018 “Melanie is super awesome and incredibly sweet. I wasn’t afraid to spoon with her even though she showed up in full clown make-up.OK maybe shouldn’t write that … how about this?Melanie was super cool and very relaxing to be with. She carries herself well and I found her incredibly articulate regarding a range of differing subject matters.”
Amara's Testimonials
From DJ, East Bay, 6/26/2024 “Amara has such a sweet, nurturing spirit! She is so considerate and I feel very safe and comfortable with her. I really enjoyed our light chit-chat conversations, as well as our times of quiet snuggling. I left feeling very calm and peaceful. Thanks so much Amara, for being part of my healing journey!”
From Tristan, San Jose, 2/6/2024 “Best session ever! I was pleasantly surprised with how well Amara and I get along. She’s so sweet and kind. She seemed to really enjoy it as well so I hope I’m perceiving that accurately.”
From Dave, San Jose, 11/9/2023 “Amara was great!! As soon as she met me was very friendly and made me feel at ease. Showed me the snuggle sutra book and let me look through and chose position to cuddle.”
Samantha's Testimonials
From Anonymous, San Jose, 5/25/2024 “Samantha was so kind and welcoming! She made the session feel relaxing and natural, without any awkwardness. The atmosphere and even the music was great. Samantha was friendly, snuggly, and accommodating! I would definitely repeat! I would reschedule with her for sure.”
From Anonymous, San Jose, 5/19/2024 “Samantha is a fantastic partner. I enjoy talking to her, she listens and provides great feedback. Very warm and nurturing to cuddle with. The session revitalizes me. Exactly what I am looking for.”
From Mark, Roseville, 5/16/2024 “I had my first Snuggle Session with Samantha and I can’t wait for more! First, she is easy to talk to and made me feel comfortable right away. I’ve had sessions with other Snuggle Partners before where we took turns spooning, but with Samantha, I tried something new where she was behind me and gently massaged my shoulders..it was very relaxing. We chatted and she’s a great listener. When the session ended, I felt very relaxed and recharged. She’s really sweet and a smart woman with lots of knowledge! Thank you Samantha!”
From Mark, San Jose, 5/15/2024 “Thank you for our cuddle session. It was very relaxing, you were so accommodating and lovely during our cuddle session, I felt welcome and relaxed and really enjoyed cuddling with you. I look forward to booking another session in the near future. Best regards!”
From Paul, San Jose, 4/13/2024 “Samantha was very easy to talk to, and she made me feel right at home and very comfortable. I felt nurtured and cared for. It was very fulfilling and pleasurable.”
From Anonymous, San Jose, 5/3/2024 “Samantha was very warm, welcoming, friendly and supportive. She was very open to conversation and to exchange experiences.”
Shannon's Testimonials
From Cliff, San Jose, 5/21/2024 “Wonderful conversation.”
From Snuggle Guy, Stockton, 8/26/2018 “Shannon is undoubtedly one of a kind. It was quite refreshing to meet someone with such candor, and with a natural ability to be nurturing and helpful in her conversation. I enjoyed snuggling with Shannon and I hope that in our next session, I can reciprocate the warmth and comfort that I received from her caring embrace.”
From B.J., San Ramon, 6/9/2018 “Thank you for taking the time to write a very personal note to me. Yes, I enjoyed your company as well. It is always a little awkward getting to know a stranger in a somewhat intimate way. I felt you were open and welcoming to me. Even though you are not the first person I’ve snuggled with, you are one of the very best to cuddle with. I hope to see you again.”
From F. V., San Jose, 6/6/2018 “Shannon is a mindful cuddler and I could tell in the short time we had that she really enjoys snuggling with others. She is able have a good conversation which we had during our time, or even be just be present while in silence and enjoying the cuddle time.”
Testimonials from Snuggle Partners
From Amanda, Santa Cruz, 2/17/2024 “Working with Snuggle Salon and Yvonne was very transformative for me, in the best way. Yvonne taught me so much about navigating consent, establishing and holding boundaries, and creating a safe container for vulnerability, authenticity, and platonic love – for both myself and my clients. I can’t put a price on the value I received through my experience as a Snuggle Partner. Truly my life is richer and happier because I made the decision to work with Snuggle Salon. I am so grateful for the skills and outlook that I gained through this experience.”
— Thank you Amanda!! It was pure joy working with you and becoming your friend. You are a positive, courageous, intelligent woman who I feel very blessed to have in my life. — Yvonne
From Melanie, Santa Cruz, 10/17/2019 “I love working for snuggle salon. Most of my clients have been delightful, a few have been challenging, and the latter have been the best learning experiences. I already knew many of my boundaries and how to communicate them lovingly, and this work is helping me discover more subtle boundaries and get even better at communicating them.”
“I think it is important that I share about my time working with Snuggle Salon. If you are looking for an experience that will help you grow as a person really consider investing in yourself with a professional cuddle session. Having been on both sides of the experience – both being snuggled and as a professional snuggler, I have learned a lot about myself and how I choose to connect with other people. You will experience boundary sensitivity and experiment with platonic intimacy. You will experience touch without the pressure of having to “make it happen”. Your snuggle partner cares about you. They want you to have a productive and organic experience.
Snuggle Partners are not ordinary employees. It takes something very special to share your time with someone in this way. Don’t expect everything to be perfect because every time will be new and different. Be prepared to meet parts of yourself you didn’t know existed. Yvonne is the Goddess of the Snuggles. Trust her to guide you gently through a new way of seeing the world.”
— Sage decided to begin working full-time on her blog. I will be forever grateful for her contribution and I will miss her!! — Yvonne
From Layla, Sunnyvale, 7/12/2018 “Working as a Snuggle Partner has been an amazing personal growth experience. Although I’ve so much more to learn and explore regarding the human condition, the framework of Snuggle Salon provided a solid foundation to understanding the essential human need for touch, closeness, connection, acceptance, empathy and compassion. These needs expressed by clients have introduced me to a new awareness: the realization of the insurmountable pain each of us carries. I feel evermore motivated to continue learning, developing and strengthening the skills I’ve acquired as a snuggle partner, and hope to nurture current and future relationships over time. My snuggle partner experience has opened my heart in ways I never thought possible. I have witnessed true emotional and spiritual healing for myself as well as my clients.”
— Layla decided that her primary relationship needed attention and decided to take time to focus on it. I will be forever grateful for her contribution and she will be missed!! — Yvonne
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Laura's Testimonials
From M.S., San Jose 10/2/2023 “Laura is an extremely wonderful soul. This was my first session with her, and she was very welcoming and friendly which made me feel comfortable right from the start. She is a great listener and very engaged in conversation. After my session, my heart felt relieved from just having a great conversation and the snuggles definitely bring comfort to your soul. I will surely schedule future sessions with Laura and it’s great to have an establishment like Snuggle Salon that makes it all possible.”
From Mark, Sunnyvale 8/7/2023 “I very much loved our cuddling session, you were so kind and embracing from the very moment we met, the 90 min session from there was very welcoming, very relaxing. Thank you for your beautiful personality and for making our cuddling session very much enjoyable. I look forward also to cuddling with you soon. Regards!”
From Matt, San Jose 7/28/2023 “I really enjoyed my snuggle time with Laura. I have been starved of human touch for so long and this really got the oxytocin flowing! She was friendly, warm, and kind and I could feel the good energy emanating from her. We had very friendly conversation which made the time pass a bit faster but was very satisfying. Overall, I highly recommend Laura as a snuggle partner and I plan on making another appointment soon. ☺️”
From David., San Mateo 7/6/2022 “I enjoyed how Laura treated me with respect and caring, and she was patient. Since this was my first Snuggle experience I was a little nervous and apprehensive, but she calmed my anxiety and me it a fun and enriching experience. Laura was very friendly and easy to work with, and helped guide us along in a fun and sensitive way.”
From A.J., Fremont 6/23/2022 “I got a chance to snuggle with Laura on 6/22/2022. I do not have words to justify my experience. She is one of rare gems I met during my 3 years of cuddling. She is a born cuddler. She is very soft spoken, respectful and easy going. She herself enjoys the sessions and keeps you entertained. She is very hard working and very mature for her age. There is not a single minute that I felt bored. She is very caring and friendly. I have no hesitation in recommending her. I am also looking for many more cuddle sessions with her. Also wish her best of luck for her future.”
From D.M., Los Gatos 6/10/2022 “Laura was great! I came away from our snuggle session feeling very peaceful and free from stress. I’m thinking about scheduling another session [soon].”
From GC, 5/28/2022 “My time spent with Laura was more than I could expect. Not only sweet but a true beauty. She wraps you in a comforting embrace and engaging conversation. Willing to listen and eager to be heard I highly recommend Laura for those that want a warm gentle touch, an to experience the company of a feminine, intelligent, and welcoming woman.
My only regret is not booking a longer session. The time flew by which lead to my only disappointment. The conclusion of the session. At a time when we all have been deprived of social interactions, Laura is what we all need to make connections with the real world again.”
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Photos of me with a favorite snuggle partner
Paige's Testimonials
From R., Oakland, 5/9/2023 “I really enjoyed snuggling with Paige and feeling the sense of connection and intimacy as we talked about life, philosophy, work, spirituality. She is a beautiful soul. Paige frequently checked in on my comfort level. I’m new to this service and Paige helped recommend different positions that made me feel a sense of relaxation and bliss.”
From Dave, San Jose, 5/8/2023 “I enjoyed the snuggle partner I choose. She was friendly and made me feel at ease. It was my 1st time trying [ nurture therapy ]. I liked the snuggle positions she showed. She spooned me and let me spoon her and she let me lie on my back with a pillow in between us as she massaged my shoulder. Even though it was a paid experience, it felt like we were just friends snuggling, so that was kinda cool — but Paige was main reason why it was successful — because her demeanor was really positive. “
Bridgette's Testimonials
From D., South Bay, 4/29/2023 “Bridgette was terrific. She is a great snuggler who reads her client’s needs and likes and tailors the session to those. She has a good sense of humor and knows when to chat and when to let silence take over. She is very intuitive in not only snuggling but also in understanding who her client is.”
From Jayesh, Los Gatos, 11/10/2022 “Bridgette is such a beautiful and positive person. It was my first snuggle session and she made me feel comfortable and loved. I would love to snuggle again with her.”
Belle's Testimonials
From T.D., Oakland, 4/28/2023 “I enjoyed everything about my session with Belle — from the warm, openness and friendly non-judgemental attitude and approach Belle demonstrated during our session. She was snuggly, friendly and accommodating and she helped make the whole experience, so beautiful and memorable.”
From D.C., Danville, 9/21/2022 “Belle is very easy to work with, she makes me feel relaxed and is open to hear any ideas I might have, and if I ask her to give some ideas she’s ready and willing. I like the fact the she is open to sharing in conversation, it makes it easier for me to want to open up as well. She creates a safe and yet fun atmosphere. Belle made me feel well cared for, I felt her affection was genuine and she allowed me to touch and hold her as well. Thanks.”
From Paul, Peninsula, 7/02/2022 “Belle was excellent. I liked the relaxed and easy going demeanor of my snuggle partner, Belle. Since I am pretty new I feel a little unsure and akward , She guided us through in a friendly manner that made me feel at ease. She provided cuddle positions for me to see, she was patient, yet she also was willing to provide leadership since I didn’t know what positions I wanted to try, and she was fun to be with, easy to share personal things that I needed to get off my chest, and she was soothing to me. I was very satisfied.”
From K.F., Castro Valley, 12/30/2019 “I greatly enjoyed my snuggle session with Belle yesterday. Belle was very warm and affectionate. I was slightly nervous about coming in, but Belle‘s kindness and understanding put me at ease right away. The snuggle space was very comfortable and relaxing. I think I am likely to return to Belle in the future.”
From B.J., San Ramon, 10/4/2019 “I enjoyed Belle’s openness to snuggling with me. She is a good conversationalist and she listens and pays attention to what I have to say. She is very present in the moment. She dresses very modestly, yet very attractively. I look forward to our next session.”
Linda's Testimonials
From Tom, Berkeley, 4/6/2023 “In the fore of my consciousness during this session was the grief of being a little boy who never got touched enough. My snuggle partner supported me with positions and touches that represented the little boy receiving the affection he missed 50+ years ago. Snuggle partner made room for both the weeping and the laughter this work induced in me. Thank you, Linda.”
From Tom, Berkeley, 3/29/2023 “I found myself completely at ease with Linda. She welcomed not only the presence of my body, but also my heart loaded with grief. I knew I had some grief work to do, but I had not anticipated that a snuggle session would take me down that road. Linda demonstrated profound acceptance of me, and I experienced a deep sense of gratitude. Thank you for your kindness, Linda. It was an amazing experience to receive care in this way. I will be scheduling another session soon.”
From Steve, Albany, 2/5/2023 “I had a wonderful experience with Linda and she is deserving of a glowing testimonial. My time with her was soothing, relaxing and easy. I’ve been pleasantly surprised with how not at all weird it is to cuddle with a stranger, but I think it takes a certain mindset, particularly for professionals such as Linda; it’s important to be able to put people at ease. She clearly has the mindset. I immediately felt welcome and comfortable in Linda’s space and I couldn’t believe how fast 90 minutes went by. I definitely hope to see her again! “
Lauren's Testimonials
From Jim, Laguna Niguel, 3/31/2023 “Lauren was great. Prior communication was excellent. Easy to find location and parking was fine. Her apartment is very nice and inviting. She is lovely in every possible way. She has a great touch and I felt at ease and relaxed. I have cuddled before and Lauren was tops in every way. Can’t say enough nice things about her. Will def see her again.”
Danielle's Testimonials
From Peter, San Diego, 3/25/2023 “Danielle, I too enjoyed our therapy session today immensely. My sense of peace and calm is still with me hours later. As like our previous session, my expectation is that the therapeutic benefits of the session will be with me for the rest of the week. Thank You for listening to me and allowing to share my fond memories of my Father, and what he meant to me. You are easy to talk to and your listening skills are excellent. Please feel free to post my thoughts as a testimonial-I wish more people could experience the benefits of cuddle therapy. Best Regards, Peter”
From Peter, San Diego, 3/7/2023 “Danielle was a caring, sympathetic and gentle therapist. In the weeks prior to the session, I was dealing with significant muscle tension and headaches. After the session, and even several days later, my sense of calm and tranquility has been restored. Danielle is a great asset to your organization. I will be scheduling a follow-up session within a few weeks.
Saturday’s session was extremely therapeutic and brought my tension levels down significantly. Danielle has a true gift of empathy. I’m still quite relaxed as of today. Also, hearing about her intention to assist in hospice activities warmed my heart. Dealing with my Father’s death was the most devastating experience in my life. The hospice personnel helped me work through the struggle.
Cuddle therapy is an excellent “healing” art and more people should be made aware of the benefits.”
Ali's Testimonials
From Anonymous, East Bay, 3/16/2023 “Tight hugs. A feeling of warmth and relaxation! Ali is amazing snuggle doctor. She gives a sense of validation of every moments spend. Even clocks and alarms go off beat in time when in session with Ali. Every moment is turned into a positive energy! “
Daniel's Testimonials
From Bob, Los Gatos, 12/30/2021 “Matthew was wonderful! We had great a great conversation and cuddling was exactly what I needed. Thank you!”
From Anonymous, Los Gatos, 10/23/2021 “Matthew is super funny. He made me laugh so hard, I was literally rolling on the floor. He was a little reserved at first — I think he just wanted to make sure I was comfortable — but we warmed up quickly with each other and had such a good time! He is a charming Swiss guy with lots of stories. He is also a tech person if you are into that. He is an awesome cuddle and the time we spent being close with his long arms totally encompassing me was perfect. I plan to snuggle with him again very soon.”
From Brenda-Anne, East Bay, 7/23/2016 “I have been snuggling with Matthew regularly for about four months. Psychotherapy can only do so much if what one really needs is just to be held and have their hair petted. Coming out of a painful divorce, I deeply appreciate being able to have healing, platonic contact without the hassle (or expectations) of dating. (And to be honest, most of my friends are too skinny to cuddle.) He has been conscientiously professional and a perfect gentleman at each session. Matthew is one of the kindest and most genuine people I’ve ever met, and he has been essential in my healing journey. Some women get massages or pedicures, I like to treat myself to a snuggle. I can’t recommend Matthew enough!”
From Heatherly, San Jose, 8/26/2016 “I highly recommend a snuggle session with Matthew. He is very respectful and has has nice quality of touch and holding. When he snuggles me I can feel his heart and his empathy. He has a lot of kindness and sweetness to offer. I feel like I’ve had a massage after snuggling with him. I’m a BBW woman and I feel beautiful and have a greater appreciation for my body after snuggling with him. He helps all the stress melt away. I’ve also enjoyed snuggling with him and watching a movie. So much fun. Thank you Matthew.”
Felicity's Testimonials
From AC, Oakland, 08/07/2022 “On top of being empathetic and good company, Felicity is such a cool person who is comfortable in her own skin. It helped me do the same; I felt comfortable with her almost immediately I look forward to booking with her again.”
Amanda's Testimonials
From Brian, Los Altos, 4/22/2022 “Amanda brings a warm, friendly energy to her sessions that makes me feel welcome and connected. The time I spent with her left me with a peaceful feeling all week. Thanks, Amanda!”
From Dorian, Hayward, 4/14/2022 “As you know that was my first time ever and naturally I was very nervous. From the time you greeted me at the door with your warm smile and throughout the whole session you were professional, patient and conferring. The way you walked me trough the session helped me be at ease. Thank you so much for what you do and for helping me remember some happy moments in my life that it was tucked away and hard to reach.I am glad you enjoyed my quirky cooking tips. I am looking forward to schedule another session with you.”
From Dave, Los Gatos, 4/9/2022 “I want you to know how much I appreciate the time you spent with me yesterday. Today I’m totally without anxiety and I feel so relaxed and peaceful. You truly are a miracle worker! You have a natural gift and you make the world a better place for people like me.”
From R.T., Los Gatos, 4/17/2021 “The appointment with Amanda was a 10! I enjoyed the feeling of being touched and the conversation. Felt relaxed.”
From K.B., Foster City, 6/4/2019 “Amanda is a sweet, sweet lady with amazing touches and caresses! I met her for the first time today and I am sure it is not the last, at least as far as I am concerned ;). She is charming, knowledgeable, down to earth, AND SUPER HUGGABLE! I look forward to seeing you again soon Amanda! “
From F.V., San Jose, 5/28/2019 “I’m happy I met with Amanda for a session. I was able to communicate what I enjoy in a cuddle session and she was able to listen and be intuitive in our cuddle time. She is very snuggly and her enthusiasm for cuddling is very evident.”
From C.L., Santa Clara, 5/21/2019 “Thank you Amanda for such a lovely snuggling session. It was a new pleasure with a snuggling partner with your attitude. I enjoyed the positive energy and your open-minded conversations during our snuggling session. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you for the companionship and the affection you shared with me. I am more than satisfied and really appreciate your positive outlook. I will definitely plan for many more snuggling sessions with you.”
From Manuel, Salinas, 5/8/2019 “I thoroughly enjoyed my time with Amanda. She was very warm, open, and generous with her energy. I look forward to my next session with her.”
Boundaries Sensitivity Training
from C.L., Santa Clara, 5/21/2019, Boundaries Sensitivity Training Class delivered by Melanie “Melanie helped me to understand the step-by-step process of snuggling session and I enjoyed every moment of it 🙂 She even helped me with my confidence and really focused on the meaningful intimacy.Thank you Melanie for your snuggling session and your insights about it. I am happy to say that I have a snuggling partner like Melanie.”
From Chakra, Santa Clara, 5/16/2019, Boundaries Sensitivity Training Class delivered “I am profoundly grateful, humbled by the experience and honored to have connected with a pure soul, Yvonne. My blockages were something I was aware of but Yvonne put a lot into perspective for me. She took me on this journey and visited true self of me that needed affection and healing attention. This process taught me how to connect to my highest true self. Investing in your health and well-being is the greatest act of self-love.”
Marie's Testimonials
From Jorge, South Bay 3/12/2020 “It was awesome! I didn’t realize how much I needed this until I had my appointment, I loved everything about it. It felt so refreshing and it went beyond my expectations. Marie is very professional, I was a bit nervous at first since it’s the first time I do this, but she immediately took over and led me all the way through and made me feel very comfortable and so peaceful. I feel like my anxiety is pretty much gone. This was so worth it. I will definitely continue to book appointments on a regular basis now. Thanks again Marie for being so amazing! It was a great time, I’m so glad we met and I truly enjoyed your presence and genuine kindness. Can’t wait for next time :)”
From Les, East Bay 3/10/2020 “I experienced a session with Marie last night. Our session began with some hand holding in each other’s arms as the sun went down. Pleasant from the very beginning. As we enjoyed a few basic “go to” poses, we enjoyed some like minded philosophical discussions as we lightly caressed each other. I was in need of some substantial nurturing and healing and got it. Marie is a caring, refreshing little bundle of loving energy. She has a healthy outlook on life and a welcoming smile. I could not recommend her more.”
From B.C., San Jose 2/19/2020 “Spending time with Marie was a wonderful, relaxing experience. She has such a friendly, warm personality and I really enjoyed our time together. I feel so lucky to have had a chance to meet such a great human and spend a few precious hours with her!”
From K.L., San Jose 2/6/2020 “I’m really happy that I dove into this experience with you. I believe that this was def. a stepping stone in my personal growth as a human. On top of the open vulnerability and conversations of life, I walked away with greater knowledge of various cuddling positions and what works best for me and the given partner. Marie has both a warming and inviting personality. To sum things up, Marie is awesome at what she does and a great cuddling partner for someone looking to dive into the the give and receive nature of cuddling.”
From Garvin Hung, Los Angeles, 12/29/2019 “Nice conversation, touch felt great! I enjoyed holding hands and hugging, felt very safe!”
From K.B., Foster City, 4/16/2019 “I totally enjoyed our cuddle session as I told you and I guess the best thing I can say is: “I can’t wait for our next session!”. ❤️ You have a very warm personality and demeanor which really put me at ease… keep it up dear lady. Look forward to seeing you again soon!”
From “Snuggle-Guy-In-Stockton”, 3/20/2019 “There is no better feeling than that of being welcomed and cared about and that’s exactly how Marie made me feel. From the moment we met, to the cozy cuddling environment she had prepared for us; and then, to her nurturing embraces and gentle caresses: everything she did gave me the sense of belonging that I so very much needed. Our time was over all too soon and saying I did not want to leave speaks volumes for how I feel about Marie as a snuggle partner. I can’t wait to see Marie again!”
From Joshua, San Jose, 3/9/2019 “Marie was very kind and welcoming, which quickly put me at ease. She’s very snuggly, and has a real talent for giving light touches that feel amazing and leave you feeling very relaxed. I really look forward to snuggling with her again!”
Yvonne's Testimonials
From Chakra, Santa Clara, 5/16/2019, Boundaries Sensitivity Training Class “I am profoundly grateful, humbled by the experience and honored to have connected with a pure soul, Yvonne. My blockages were something I was aware of but Yvonne put a lot into perspective for me. She took me on this journey and visited true self of me that needed affection and healing attention. This process taught me how to connect to my highest true self. Investing in your health and well-being is the greatest act of self-love.”
From G., San Jose, 11/4/2016 “I had my second session with Yvonne, and it was even better than our first session. She is simply so snuggable! As before, she greeted me with a big hug and very genuine and sweet smile. I like how I just melt into her arms when I see her and immediately feel a sense of calmness, connection, comfort. We tried several different snuggle positions again, most of which involved us holding each other very closely, wrapping our arms and legs around each other. And then she helped me discover my favorite position, and it was pure bliss for a long time. Yvonne is so genuinely loving and compassionate about what she does for her clients. I can’t wait for my next session with my snuggle expert!”
From M. Leonard, San Jose, 5/15/2016 “Yvonne is a wonderful snuggler! She immediately put me at ease during our first session and effortlessly balanced professionalism with warmth and compassion. She encouraged me to ask for the type of snuggling I needed, but also had many creative and delightful suggestions that enhanced the experience. Despite never having met before, we were able share ideas, laughter, and even vulnerability — all through the medium of affectionate touch. I am so glad I decided to schedule an appointment with Yvonne, and left feeling happy, refreshed, and looking forward to our next session!”
From E. Harbinite, San Jose, 2/18/2016 “Yvonne was extremely gracious and welcomed me with a nice hug. Her smile and warmth towards me was incredible. We talked a little and hugged and snuggled throughout the 90 minute session. She made feel quite relaxed and at ease. She confidently explained the policies at the beginning of the session, and asked me if had any boundaries. I felt comfortable enough with her to open all the session renderings. Such a warm and caring experience. I look forward to my next session with her which would only be constrained by the amount of dollars per month allocated for self-care :-). Kudos to you Yvonne for having the insight and thoughtfulness to pursue your dream.”
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Haven's Testimonials
From C.K., Petaluma, 4/20/2018
“Haven was very easy to talk to. She made me feel at ease and paid attention to my requests. I look forward to a future session.”
From DJ, East Bay, 9/20/2016
“Haven is such a sweet, affectionate person. She wears her heart on her sleeve and you will immediately notice how caring she is. Our cuddle time just flew by. Do yourself a favor and schedule a session with her!”
